Refusing to leave behind the hurts of past
relationships, and not fully moving away from
them will always cost you future
relationships.
relationships, and not fully moving away from
them will always cost you future
relationships.
According to Nancy Nichols, an American
relationships and dating expert, the number one
issue that causes men to lose interest in
relationships, and eventually call it quits is that
women often drag the baggage of a past hurtful
relationships around with them.
Nichols says when women have had their hearts
broken more than once, they often tend to
become bitter, lumping all men into one category
– “liars, cheaters, assholes.”
This, she says, causes them to build up a
defense, which might not totally be a bad thing,
until it makes them totally unattractive to several
men [including the good ones] who might
normally have shown interest in them.
Such women always have their outlook on life
changed from one of trusting, loving, and
cheerfulness to one which literally screams "I'm
not going to put up with a man's crap! I don't
trust men. I like my life, I don't have to have a
man."
When such woman eventually starts to date or
becomes romantically involved again, she still
retains the bitterness, and self-defense which
hinders her from giving her all to the relationship.
“Conversations with this kind of woman are
draining, gloomy and non-productive. She
contributes to your conversation with her highly
opinionated comments. She counters your
comments with her combative point of views."
To such woman, her statements express how
tough, capable, intelligent, and independent she
is.
However to a man, it’ll often be interpreted as
being “narrow-minded, disagreeable and
argumentative.”
This eventually tires the man and makes him pull
out of the relationship, and sends the woman back
into her bitterness, anger and belief that all men
are cheaters, when in fact, the problem and fault
lies at her own feet.
relationships and dating expert, the number one
issue that causes men to lose interest in
relationships, and eventually call it quits is that
women often drag the baggage of a past hurtful
relationships around with them.
Nichols says when women have had their hearts
broken more than once, they often tend to
become bitter, lumping all men into one category
– “liars, cheaters, assholes.”
This, she says, causes them to build up a
defense, which might not totally be a bad thing,
until it makes them totally unattractive to several
men [including the good ones] who might
normally have shown interest in them.
Such women always have their outlook on life
changed from one of trusting, loving, and
cheerfulness to one which literally screams "I'm
not going to put up with a man's crap! I don't
trust men. I like my life, I don't have to have a
man."
When such woman eventually starts to date or
becomes romantically involved again, she still
retains the bitterness, and self-defense which
hinders her from giving her all to the relationship.
“Conversations with this kind of woman are
draining, gloomy and non-productive. She
contributes to your conversation with her highly
opinionated comments. She counters your
comments with her combative point of views."
To such woman, her statements express how
tough, capable, intelligent, and independent she
is.
However to a man, it’ll often be interpreted as
being “narrow-minded, disagreeable and
argumentative.”
This eventually tires the man and makes him pull
out of the relationship, and sends the woman back
into her bitterness, anger and belief that all men
are cheaters, when in fact, the problem and fault
lies at her own feet.
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